Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - the ultimate in difficult beginnings to marriage! HELP!

draconis · 02-09-2008, 02:05 AM

A female psychologist might be much better then a therapist. The bigger issue is how you communicate with her. Her issue is she needs to get to a resolution without making big steps. Start small and as soon as she shows she is uncomfortable back off or change the subject. She will not be able to handle it all at once. It may take years for her to come around, sadly some people never do.

Communication and understanding can build a bridge of trust which is what she needs to realize that you are not those "other men".

I wish you the best of luck and please keep use informed and ask any other questions you wish. I feel for you, because you are suffering too.

draconis

02-09-2008, 02:05 AM	#5 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 3,490	Re: the ultimate in difficult beginnings to marriage! HELP! A female psychologist might be much better then a therapist. The bigger issue is how you communicate with her. Her issue is she needs to get to a resolution without making big steps. Start small and as soon as she shows she is uncomfortable back off or change the subject. She will not be able to handle it all at once. It may take years for her to come around, sadly some people never do. Communication and understanding can build a bridge of trust which is what she needs to realize that you are not those "other men". I wish you the best of luck and please keep use informed and ask any other questions you wish. I feel for you, because you are suffering too. draconis