Originally Posted by JoeHenderson
I wanted to briefly respond to I believe enlightenment who suggested other forms of sexual contact, including masturbation, while my wife holds me. She wasn't thrilled about such alternatives as there was no pleasure involved for her, but then she also doesn't want it if I offer it. She knows I'm upset about this but only prescribes patience. Well it's hard to be patient when I think and see sex 24/7.
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there are many things I do for my husband that don't give me pleasure.
Laundry, cleaning, cooking his dinner when he gets home from work at 8:30pm...but it's not about me! It's about the marriage and about his needs. It's about me stepping out of myself and caring for this man that I promised to love. No ego.
Your wife needs a good kick in the va-jayjay. Seriously. Even with sex, sometimes I'm not in the mood (rarely), but I'll still do things to please him because at that moment he wants it and I am more than happy to make him happy. Those are usually the nights I get super freaky with bjs and other things that don't require me to get naked.