| | Re: Distressed
Tell her, "you can call me jerk or whatever, but the truth is I am deeply hurt, and there is not a day that goes by I don't think about this affair. I am so hurt and still devastated. And, you don't even offer me a genuine apology. What kind of monster of wife are you to have done this and still refuse to say 'sorry'".
"I want to get over this hurt and move on, but I can't, because you refuse to even apologize. If I have done this to you and never say even 'sorry', how would you feel?"
The fact is that she may have said some insincere 'sorry' in a half-hearted way, but by you keep sticking to this and demand she say it more often. Hopefully, the subsequent "sorry"s become more sincere and lead her to open up more expressing her guilt, which I am sure built up deep inside her somewhere.