Originally Posted by chillymorn
sounds like your starting to self reflect. you go girl only good will come of it.
I probably wasn't clear before I added the 2nd and 3rd paragraph. My post wasn't going through so I copied and pasted it but it only got the first paragraph for some reason.
It's my husband who has been exploding. Yes, there were times that I exploded back in response (realized that mistake around 2 years ago and worked hard at changing that). I read your response and realized that the first paragraph alone looks like it's me with the anger. Not that my resentments haven't been a portion of our problem, but I just wanted to make that clear. :-)