| | Re: The Images !
In order for a woman to want you, she has to respect you for who you are as a man.
We talk about love and caring as if its the salvation of a relationship, but it is actually only a reward given for what supports the relationship. "Love" is a word that describes a "feeling" which is an electrochemical state of the mind, and that state is determined roughly by the presence of the neurochemicals dopamine and oxytocin among others in unknown quantities/configurations.
You need food to survive, and food is nothing more than plants and animals that have been dominated and killed by a human hand to provide you with the ENERGY you need to live- a car is made from metal ore and various oil configurations- everything in life centers around the manipulation of matter and time.
See? THIS is what a woman is attracted to. Money is nothing more than your ability at any given time to immediately control assets created by mankind's manipulation of the environment. This is why women are attracted to rich men (some are), smart men (some are), strong men (some are), good fathers (some are), and SUCCESSFUL MEN (again, some are); women are attracted to men who can manipulate her environment in a desirable way. This can be through wealth or wisdom, but it is LEADERSHIP that she desires in either case.
If you want your woman to want you, or any woman to want you, you must build who you are as a man. Hit the gym, take some classes at a college THAT INTEREST YOU, learn about people, demand that others treat you with respect while you do the same, and do everything in your cognitive capacity to effect a positive difference in the world around you.
Dont you see? Unconditional love is the SPOILS she gives you for being that man; she wont love you simply because you give her caring, but instead she will love you for who you are as a man.
They will twist everything you have ever done in a way that justifies why they are leaving, and they will believe every word of it- it FEELS right to be with the OM because of what he offers in ways you might not understand. Yeah, maybe hes broke- so are many wise men. Yeah, maybe hes ugly, but so are many good men. As is commonly said, she may eventually REALIZE that the OM isnt what she thought he was- that initially limited stage on which they correspond is wrought with ignorance. She sees what he has constructed (when you date a woman, you try to look as cool, calm, collected, successful and "sharp" as possible, right?) for her, and what her ignorance blinds her from initially seeing. Or, perhaps hes just better for her than you are.
Its hard to know, but one thing is for sure: you lose nothing by improving who you are as a man, accepting what you cannot change (including her feelings), and by letting go of something that is preventing you from ascending in the manner I describe.