Originally Posted by chillymorn
with this analogy are you saying sex should not be an expecation of marriage?
its the old which came first her with holding sex or him with holding money.
The way it's expressed it makes it sound less like an expectation and more like an obligation or ultimatum.
Your boss says "Do this crap job you don't like or I'll fire you!" does this make you love your boss?
If a husband says to the wife "Drop 'em or I kick you out! does this make her love her husband?
In a boss / worker relationship, you expect there to be a degree of deference. Is marriage the same?