| | Re: Wanting intimacy but holding back
It would be bad if you were withholding sex and he wasn't even having and affair. However, STD's are a HUGE deal and I'd hate to see you end up with an STD because he was cheating and you were trying to keep things going between you. That is a dilemma. I hope everything works out for you. I hope he is not cheating and that you can find a way to get past that.