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snix11 · 03-10-2009, 05:21 PM

Oh boy.

I had an AFF account for years. It's how I met my Husband. I actually went on there to get this, meet adult FRIENDS. Not one night stands. oops.

Well I checked my account recently and noticed I had like 200 replies. I have put on my profile that I am in a relationship, and that I'm only looking for Friends, NOT SEX.

Once I weeded out all the 'hey baby lets F**k' messages, there were several there that might turn into actual friends or even good business contacts.

This account is not hidden from Hubby and he has my log in and password and checks it regularly. I dont feel i have anything to hide from him.

There are enough posts to would be suitors out there stating look, you are cute and all but i'm in love with my husband to make him feel secure.

However. I've been invited to a buisness meeting where one of these people will be in attendence. He wants to talk about starting a joint venture. Fine and dandy with me, I like business.

But he wants to meet at a cafe before the meeting (I mentioned I wanted to talk to him privately before the general meeting to get a feel of where this JV might go) and he picked an 8pm cafe and said he would be there at the table with a yellow rose.

Oh for heavens sake. I wrote him back to make sure he didn't have designs on my old ugly butt and to let him know i'm not in this for anything personal. He said that was fine.

Hubby says he doesn't care (typical hubby) but I feel weird about it.

To make matters worse, there are about 50 guys on there that would be happy to date me that are gorgeous, rich, successful, single etc.

I didn't realize how much I missed getting compliments from my husband till i went on that site and was literally bombarded with all sorts of really thoughtful, intelligent compliments.

Well, long and short of it is - if hubby does what I think he's gonna do at Spring war the weekend of the 20th - (he's claiming to be bringing something called the panty-dropper, and will be drinking tequila which he ONLY does when he's on a '**** fest' nuff said) I may just look up one of these guys.

I dunno.. Am I being stupid?

03-10-2009, 05:21 PM	#1 (permalink)
snix11 Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: San Antonio Posts: 1,234	Adult Friend Finder Oh boy. I had an AFF account for years. It's how I met my Husband. I actually went on there to get this, meet adult FRIENDS. Not one night stands. oops. Well I checked my account recently and noticed I had like 200 replies. I have put on my profile that I am in a relationship, and that I'm only looking for Friends, NOT SEX. Once I weeded out all the 'hey baby lets Fk' messages, there were several there that might turn into actual friends or even good business contacts. This account is not hidden from Hubby and he has my log in and password and checks it regularly. I dont feel i have anything to hide from him. There are enough posts to would be suitors out there stating look, you are cute and all but i'm in love with my husband to make him feel secure. However. I've been invited to a buisness meeting where one of these people will be in attendence. He wants to talk about starting a joint venture. Fine and dandy with me, I like business. But he wants to meet at a cafe before the meeting (I mentioned I wanted to talk to him privately before the general meeting to get a feel of where this JV might go) and he picked an 8pm cafe and said he would be there at the table with a yellow rose. Oh for heavens sake. I wrote him back to make sure he didn't have designs on my old ugly butt and to let him know i'm not in this for anything personal. He said that was fine. Hubby says he doesn't care (typical hubby) but I feel weird about it. To make matters worse, there are about 50 guys on there that would be happy to date me that are gorgeous, rich, successful, single etc. I didn't realize how much I missed getting compliments from my husband till i went on that site and was literally bombarded with all sorts of really thoughtful, intelligent compliments. Well, long and short of it is - if hubby does what I think he's gonna do at Spring war the weekend of the 20th - (he's claiming to be bringing something called the panty-dropper, and will be drinking tequila which he ONLY does when he's on a '** fest' nuff said) I may just look up one of these guys. I dunno.. Am I being stupid?