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MyKidsMom · 02-10-2008, 02:16 PM

Wow, that was a great read. Man did it hit most of his points......
Thanks you guys for being there, I feel as if I have used my sis and friend to much on this point. So it's good to have a mid-point in you guys, someone that does not know us and can look at it so from the middle. I know you are only getting my side, but damn if I knew what his side was I would tell you........ I know Im not perfect by NO means but hell does it have to be so hard to love someone??????????

I guess not from what I have read and from what you all have told me, I use to think he was my soul mate ( kidding myself ) from what I have learned there is no such thing only that if you truly care for someone both of you will always work at the realationship. It will not be one sided. Ugggggggggggg

I never wanted to get married and have kids to end up saying good bye. Man I was with this man for 8 years before I said lets do it, we had been engaged for 5 years. Then together for 11 before having a child.. I thought I was doing everything right ( I guess I was wrong ) I picked wrong and I should have seen the red flags. But all I could see was all the fun and stuff we do and that blured my vision. How blind did I want to be????? I guess pretty cause I did it to my self.

Hug's to you all and thanks again for all advice you all rock and I just hope I can help some one else out here as much as you all have for me.

I need a group cyber hug please HUG XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

02-10-2008, 02:16 PM	#4 (permalink)
MyKidsMom Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 52	Re: Why are people so selfish???? Wow, that was a great read. Man did it hit most of his points...... Thanks you guys for being there, I feel as if I have used my sis and friend to much on this point. So it's good to have a mid-point in you guys, someone that does not know us and can look at it so from the middle. I know you are only getting my side, but damn if I knew what his side was I would tell you........ I know Im not perfect by NO means but hell does it have to be so hard to love someone?????????? I guess not from what I have read and from what you all have told me, I use to think he was my soul mate ( kidding myself ) from what I have learned there is no such thing only that if you truly care for someone both of you will always work at the realationship. It will not be one sided. Ugggggggggggg I never wanted to get married and have kids to end up saying good bye. Man I was with this man for 8 years before I said lets do it, we had been engaged for 5 years. Then together for 11 before having a child.. I thought I was doing everything right ( I guess I was wrong ) I picked wrong and I should have seen the red flags. But all I could see was all the fun and stuff we do and that blured my vision. How blind did I want to be????? I guess pretty cause I did it to my self. Hug's to you all and thanks again for all advice you all rock and I just hope I can help some one else out here as much as you all have for me. I need a group cyber hug please HUG XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX __________________ I am one of a kind, to know me is to LOVE me.