Originally Posted by sadcalifornian
She is not stupid. If she knows that is what you will be monitoring and wants to continue contact, why would she use the same tool of communication? Also, you don't even know this is one time thing? I am just worried that your approach seems nothing short of just sweeping under the rug. Be more proactive than this!
I don't disagree and I can see where you're coming from. Here's the thing. According to her and the emails I've seen, I have no solid reason to believe that she's been doing anything since February. One look at her cell records from then to now will 99% confirm or reject that since she and the phone have been surgically connected forever. If I see a pattern of calls to him or anyone else since then, that will let me know I'm not getting the truth from her. I know this isn't a 100% guarantee, but it's a huge one.
Is it possible there's a hidden email account or something else? Sure, but my wife is not very tech savvy (i am) and I've been poring over browser histories as well for any other ID's in hotmail, yahoo, gmail, etc, and haven't found anything. I may never know everything that happened for sure, but I'm reasonably confident that I'll be able to spot if it lasted longer than she said. Thank you. I really do appreciate everyone's advice, even if I'm too dumb to take all of it.