Originally Posted by Rob774
This would be the sorta thing that would piss me off back in the day. KNowing that s3x was supposed to be jumping off, then she'd be sleep when i'd finally come into the bedroom.That showed me she just didn't care about my feelings.
If you don't mind me prying, has your drive always been this high? Even prior to you guys meeting. I had no way of knowing that i'd be this s3xually frustrated as i am now, at the early start of our relationship, when i could of taken her on any given night if i wanted to. But like i mentioned before, its a compromise, and as long as i don't feel totally neglected, i don't mind toning down my desires a little bit.
Yes it has, ever since I became active...20+ years ago...of course, now, I've been forced to slow down because of H!
When he and I first got together, it was more frequent. But now, there's always something. He's always tired, he's on meds, he used to do the porn thing leaving none left for me (which I completely didn't get, since there I was, gagging for it all the time!)...he is worried the kids will hear (who cares?)... I get Saturday mornings. Sometimes Sundays. That's it.
I'm much more bitter about it today (bad mood) than I have been in awhile. I've tried to be understanding. Being on this forum doesn't help, sometimes! It puts all sorts into my head.