Hi Everyone, I have been on this site for quit awhile and finally decided to post! I'm at loss and any feed back is welcome!
I been married for about 10 years, we had ups and downs but I always been thinking we had a good marriage, wife had a 6 years relationship with someone else, I met her after their break up and two years later we got married. Through the years I could see that my wife was often depressed and would cry for no apparent reason, when I would ask her about it she should tell was cause she never really forgot her ex bf and how she still loved him, she was always open about it, we went to MC multiple times over this issue and every time I would think this time it will be ok... well apparently not!!!!! A few weeks ago I found out that she has been what I believe started as an EA and it may not be a PA, she does not deny it and tells me he is/was always the love of her life and that no matter what this time they not giving up on each other!!!! WTF!!!!!!!
Let me add this guy is bi polar, lives with his parents still and besides my wife has only had one gf all his life!!!!! I confronted him after find out and he had the nerve to tell me " she is mine and I'm fighting for her she is the love of my life" I just wanted to punch is romeo face, don't know how I controlled myself!!!!!
I'm enraged, hurt and still love my wife, I don't want to lose her to this POS!!!!
Any input is welcome!!!
PS - My nickname is my daughter's favourite bed time story.
I been married for about 10 years, we had ups and downs but I always been thinking we had a good marriage, wife had a 6 years relationship with someone else, I met her after their break up and two years later we got married. Through the years I could see that my wife was often depressed and would cry for no apparent reason, when I would ask her about it she should tell was cause she never really forgot her ex bf and how she still loved him, she was always open about it, we went to MC multiple times over this issue and every time I would think this time it will be ok... well apparently not!!!!! A few weeks ago I found out that she has been what I believe started as an EA and it may not be a PA, she does not deny it and tells me he is/was always the love of her life and that no matter what this time they not giving up on each other!!!! WTF!!!!!!!
Let me add this guy is bi polar, lives with his parents still and besides my wife has only had one gf all his life!!!!! I confronted him after find out and he had the nerve to tell me " she is mine and I'm fighting for her she is the love of my life" I just wanted to punch is romeo face, don't know how I controlled myself!!!!!
I'm enraged, hurt and still love my wife, I don't want to lose her to this POS!!!!
Any input is welcome!!!
PS - My nickname is my daughter's favourite bed time story.