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the guy · 10-15-2011, 08:37 PM

Contact the OMW and inform her who you are and simply tell her that your W and her H are having affair and if or when she wants the proof....give her your contact info and leave it at that.

Remember this cheating crap is hard to except and do not push any thing on her. Just keep it short and simply.

Let her do the rest after she absorbs the painfull news. Swallowing this kind of news is hard, she my be in denial, she may already now, but what ever be as gentle as possible and be quick about it. Details can always come later if she chooses to contact you.

She then has the choice to believe you and call you, already know and call you later to confirm stories, and/or never call you until days later after she realizes the possiblity and see the red flags that will make her face the reality.

10-15-2011, 08:37 PM	#2 (permalink)
the guy Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: CA Posts: 7,294	Re: Next Step? Contact the OMW and inform her who you are and simply tell her that your W and her H are having affair and if or when she wants the proof....give her your contact info and leave it at that. Remember this cheating crap is hard to except and do not push any thing on her. Just keep it short and simply. Let her do the rest after she absorbs the painfull news. Swallowing this kind of news is hard, she my be in denial, she may already now, but what ever be as gentle as possible and be quick about it. Details can always come later if she chooses to contact you. She then has the choice to believe you and call you, already know and call you later to confirm stories, and/or never call you until days later after she realizes the possiblity and see the red flags that will make her face the reality.