Originally Posted by wanttobehappy
I have a counseling sesson on Monday morning for both of us, and this thread makes me think that I might of made a mistake...Maybe we should have done it separate???? I guess will see!
Its never a mistake to try something. You never know what you might learn. but if it doesnt work out, its not the end of the world either. just keep trying new things. Ive been through about five counselors, my H has been through three. I dont think counseling is bad, just that one person cannot give you all the answers. Different people (and counselors are just people with an opinion) will have a different take, and any session can give you a new perspective. But if one feels its not working, try someone new.
"I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality."
- Bryon Katie