Cuddly84

We have been very open from day 1. He is 25 im 24 this year i have a toddler and he wants to settle down and i feel that i am ready to settle down especially with my son to mke it a more stable life I cant hang in the balance I cant keep being going out having fun.
WE have been talking bout the future alot as we both know we wanna be together and get married. He said yes but we r gonna wait for atleast 3 years or more for anything we just wanna promise each other to one another. We just taking ay by day and knowing tht we love each other very much and have a relationship that is still loving even when we havent seen each other for awhile as he works 4 days a week.

m not rushing into anything but its nice to have someone who wants to promise marriage to me and be engaged its kinda not sinking in yet but it feels good it feels the right thing im doing which is a first.

The only embarrassing thing is i bought the ring 2 sizes bigger than he is so going to get a smaller size tomorrow for him.

draconis- I can also see your point with the heightened emotions likewise with my babies father i had them for 2 yrs but wherareas now i do get them but im more comfortable around my partner im not walking on eggshells. In other words it may sound disgusting but its like he is tht close to me its scary its like he is family ( tht comfortable to do watever).
Plus we only live once why not cherish what we have and take a chance.