| | Re: I don't want my wife to be upset
Take a look around the Men's Clubhouse. You sound like a "Nice Guy." Not an insult - but also not a compliment.
Its totally normal and acceptable to make your own needs known and even expect your spouse to make some effort at meeting those needs.
Nice Guys often do all they can to make others happy, expecting or hoping that the "favors" or whatever will be returned. But unless you speak up - you may just end up angry and frustrated.