Originally Posted by unbelievable
Your post says she's had a low sex drive your entire relationship. This isn't about you. It's her and it's just the way she is. She can (and will) run through a million excuses why she lacks desire and will paint most as your fault. Replace you with any other guy on the planet and she still has a low sex drive. Jump through flaming hoops and paint your behind bright purple and she still has a low sex drive. 4-6 times a year but you only pay attention to her when you want sex. See how ridiculous that sounds? It's utter nonsense! Do you go on vacation alone frequently but pop in once every 3 months for a little quickie? She denies you daily for 90 consecutive days but claims the problem is that you only want sex?
EXACTLY. I wish there was a like button on this board like in facebook. While you probably could pay her more attention, it is mostly her fault and on her why she doesn't want sex. Diverting the fault on you will make you look like the bad guy, and then she will get you to do whatever she wants. Don't be that sap.