| | Re: Coping with the truth of his infidelity
I'm sorry your going through this. Keep your head up. Don't allow him to do this to you any longer. Hold his feet to the fire and file for divorce. That way he cannot do what ever he wants and still have you as a friend.
I would not be friends with him for now. I would not want to hear about him dating or what he was doing in his life. Respect yourself first. I would also cut off communication with him for now other than business the two of you have.
Kids/house etc. I do believe men do have responsibility to their children and in the long run I believe that it is more hurtful to them if they don't see or know the other parent.
Wait and see how he is with the new baby then judge for yourself. If he has poor parenting skills then that is different.
Take care of yourself and stay strong. I have been there and I know this sucks.