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berlinlife06 · 02-11-2008, 11:56 PM

In your heart, you are the only one that rules, and your opinion should be the only one that matters! The problem is that other people want to give your their inputs about the speed you are doing things, simply because for most people, to make a decision like getting engaged, requires more time. My sister moved in with her husband after only 3 months of meeting him, and married him soon after. They´ve been together for 9 years, and now they can´t stand each other, don´t sleep together for the last 3 years at least, but still under the same roof because of their kids. But she followed her heart and did what she wanted. So, just follow your heart, and don´t care about what anybody says!

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berlinlife06 Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 80	Re: Why so many opinions? In your heart, you are the only one that rules, and your opinion should be the only one that matters! The problem is that other people want to give your their inputs about the speed you are doing things, simply because for most people, to make a decision like getting engaged, requires more time. My sister moved in with her husband after only 3 months of meeting him, and married him soon after. They´ve been together for 9 years, and now they can´t stand each other, don´t sleep together for the last 3 years at least, but still under the same roof because of their kids. But she followed her heart and did what she wanted. So, just follow your heart, and don´t care about what anybody says!