Originally Posted by onemorethought

My husband cheated on me two years and ago and got caught and it devastated me. He was sexting and I snooped in his phone and wish I never had. But, since then, my health has gone down hill, depression and fibromyalgia. The more time that went on the deeper I fell out of love with him. Over the last 6 months, I have tried to get him to understand that I don't want to be with him anymore and he acts like he doesn't hear me. Still calls me babe, still tries to live the life that we had and its like he thinks that if he doesn't have to talk about it, it doesn't exist. How can I get him to realize that its over for me, it truly is. I don't want another man, I want to be on my own again, taking care of me for once. He destroyed my heart and there is nothing he can do about it now. Help!