Originally Posted by LoveCloud
I'm going to start the hard 180 this morning and see where that leads. I've done the ignoring before (with the exception of kid related stuff), but only for a couple days in a row and it definitely does affect her. She's thrown it back in my face as me not wanted to save this marriage and this family even though I consistently tell her that's my goal.
That's fogbabble used to control you. Be smarter than her. Every time she throws anything in your face just look her in the eyes and say "I'M not the cheater here." And walk away. Keep using the words every chance you get. If you have to get more into it, just say "I will never share my wife with another man; that's why I'm divorcing you."
The ONLY way she will EVER stop cheating is if you show her you WILL WALK AWAY if she doesn't stop. You can love her, you can want her, but to ACCEPT her cheating makes you lower than a doormat. And women cannot love a doormat.