mollyL

Aunt May is absolutely right about the ability to put your wife before you. My husband would do anything for me, and I would do the same for him. The ironic thing about giving all of yourself to your love is that you get it all back and then some.
The plans and rules you set out are very good, but you need to remember that life isn't scripted and plans hardly ever work out as you intend. Flexibility is called for, all the time.
You may want to think over telling each other everything you did or what happened to you. We are flawed beings, all of us, and perhaps some flaws that don't matter now should remain in the past.
Good luck to you.