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Steve16124 · 02-12-2008, 06:20 PM

I have been with my wife for 21 years now....7 married...it has been on the edge many of those years and cheating has been a big part of it with her cheating twice with the same person...The biggest thing I have to complain about is memory loss and immaturity....she is 40 now and acts like she is 18...at the age of 21 she would do, knew more and held the relationship with me just fine....now she can't do the smallest of things....wouldn't take my advice and complains when I get angry because she cost us money that we shouldn't spend on things she was told to avoid.....her relationship with our kids is more of a sister then a mother....they do what they want and if I get in the middle she rewards them behind my back...I've tried all I can.....I don't use anything and would do anything for my family. This is why I spent so many years trying. Counceling never helped, after we quit going she goes back to her self.....medication didn't work.....my only hope is divorce. Just don't want to be without the one I love but can't stand it anymore.....what would you all do...?

02-12-2008, 06:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
Steve16124 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 2	To Many Years To Many Mistakes I have been with my wife for 21 years now....7 married...it has been on the edge many of those years and cheating has been a big part of it with her cheating twice with the same person...The biggest thing I have to complain about is memory loss and immaturity....she is 40 now and acts like she is 18...at the age of 21 she would do, knew more and held the relationship with me just fine....now she can't do the smallest of things....wouldn't take my advice and complains when I get angry because she cost us money that we shouldn't spend on things she was told to avoid.....her relationship with our kids is more of a sister then a mother....they do what they want and if I get in the middle she rewards them behind my back...I've tried all I can.....I don't use anything and would do anything for my family. This is why I spent so many years trying. Counceling never helped, after we quit going she goes back to her self.....medication didn't work.....my only hope is divorce. Just don't want to be without the one I love but can't stand it anymore.....what would you all do...? Last edited by Steve16124; 02-12-2008 at 06:22 PM.