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Blue · 03-17-2009, 01:28 PM

Your wife needs to suffer and feel some consquences of her choices and actions. Right now she is in an affair fog, and only thinking of herself. I'm sure she's sorry (sorry she got caught) but she's not sorry enough to STOP this inappropriate behaviour with her married coworker.

If your marriage has a chance to work, she has to consider changing jobs or asking for a transfer, away from the married man. And, they need to STOP communicating and go no contact.

Does this guy's wife know about the EA? That's another option .. Tell her so it'll help stop the affair from continuing.

Question - Are you sure it was just an EA? Most people who cheat and get busted lie and deny, let alone minimize details.

Sorry to hear you're going through this.

03-17-2009, 01:28 PM	#50 (permalink)
Blue Registered User Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 8	Re: Wife and Male Coworker Your wife needs to suffer and feel some consquences of her choices and actions. Right now she is in an affair fog, and only thinking of herself. I'm sure she's sorry (sorry she got caught) but she's not sorry enough to STOP this inappropriate behaviour with her married coworker. If your marriage has a chance to work, she has to consider changing jobs or asking for a transfer, away from the married man. And, they need to STOP communicating and go no contact. Does this guy's wife know about the EA? That's another option .. Tell her so it'll help stop the affair from continuing. Question - Are you sure it was just an EA? Most people who cheat and get busted lie and deny, let alone minimize details. Sorry to hear you're going through this.