| | Re: just found out my wife had an affair
She was cheating DURING the time you were getting married
This guy didn`t just pop up today after (how long?) this amount of time with no motivation to do so.
She`s hiding the truth from you.
Have you even been married a year yet?
I`d be done.
Tell her you want his name and contact info because you`re going to get in touch with him.
See how she reacts, that`ll be great!
If she does give you his info (She won`t) call/email him and compare notes.
It sounds as if he`s in a similar situation with her as you are.