GApeach

I kind of know where you guys are coming from. To make a long story short, I love sex. My husband has always been a take it or leave it kind of guy. Well at the beginning of 2007, I noticed we were only having sex like once or twice a month, sometimes once every 2 months. Well, we took a trip a few months ago where we had to share a room with our son. I had thought he was masturbating because the signs were there. So being crafty, I started putting my son's magazines (these werent porn mags but might as well have been, scantily dressed women in bikinis and provocative poses) in a certain order and I could tell when they had been moved. (My son no longer lived here but his mags were still in his bathroom.) My husband says he has not touched them at all. I know that is a lie but I let it go. On the trip one night, an idea popped into my head. The day after we got back, I left for awhile, came home and checked the laundry, towel had semen on it and something else I did proves it, but I wont mention that. I initiate sex that night. He gets it up but cant finish. I finally ask him about it and he lies. He even promises me looking straight into my eyes that he didnt masturbate. A couple days later he finally owned up to it. This hurt me so bad. I mean he knows I am willing to have sex whenever, however, whatever. I am very open to trying anything and he knows it. (Anything between us, no swinging or anything like that.) I am now stuck where I dont believe anything he says because I know he has no problem looking me in the eye and PROMISING me is telling the truth, knowing he is lying. He eventually said the reason he did it then was because he was horny. I asked why he couldnt wait an hour or so for me to get home. He didnt know the answer to that. So it turns out, he has been masturbating all this time. He told me he had been doing this only a "couple of times." I asked him what he was thinking of when he did this and he didnt know. He said nothing really. His mind was blank. Go figure.