Re: Wife having a PA
Hurt, go dark except for the kids. She seems to be over dramatic and in need of too much attention. The best thing you can fo for you, and the thing which will get to her most, is your pulling that away.
As much as I want you to be happy, realize that the kids are hers too and she will have time with them. Except for her outbursts and act against you, she hadn't done anything to anyone else. So your not going to get exclusive control and you aren't going to get her declared incompetent etc.
So get that atnny at find a path through this. You will need to give her access to your son, and she will have to give you access to your daughter. They are kids nit bargaining chips.
Be armed with knowledge, facts, good advice, and strategy. Know that she will trash talk you to your kids. She will and you can't stop her. At this point divorce his to get her out of your life do you can begin to heal. It is not to punish her. The punishment will come when she finds the OM throwing her under the bus to save his own butt at home and the office. Posted via Mobile Device |