Re: Should I stay or go
He didn't chose one over the other he had both. She was a friend from work, if however he chose not to come home and spend time with you so he could spend time with her then I would say he chose her over the relationship. If that were the case and he didn't break the wedding vows then I'd ask why he chose her, what was the relationship lacking. If he replaced parts of the relationship with her then that is a whole different story.
Telling him who he can be and can not be friends with is manipulative, controling and borderline abusive. Frankly, many people who are controlled as such act just that way to prove they are there own person.
draconis
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