jenksie

When he found out about the guy that I talked to for a few weeks be wanted to go to counseling. I didn't want to go because I felt that we could work it out together. I know that I was wrong and I pretty much have since created a double standard asking to go to counseling now. but the way I see it, if he can't move out, then as was suggested we might as well get counseling. I do plan on calling my Employee Assistance Program tonight as a starting place. And I want to get counseling alone if he won't go.

I made the comment to him that even if counseling could make the transition to be apart easier, it will be worth it. But I don't want him to go to counseling with the primary motive of separating or divorcing. Even though I don't believe in divorce I am willing to see it as a last resort.