Originally Posted by lisa3girls
but I will never be able to complete with the kind of exciting and uninhibited (by daily life) sex he was getting from here and that terrifies me.
Also, do you think I should go to IC as well as our MC?
I felt the same way and my confidence was shot to hell for a long time- my best advice is that if you R is that you just jump into the sex. Many of us do that anyways and it's called hysterical bonding and it can actually help R when the other signs are there.
yes IC is a good idea, and in both situations shop around and find a good one