Originally Posted by Jellybeans
Its not uncommon for the OW or OM to have been cheated on before, especially in a marriage. Ironic as that sounds. We see it all the time on these threads.
It's true. When I was young, my kid's father cheated...I embarked on a series of revenge f&cks, simply to prove that I could. Not something I'm proud of, but then, it was 20 years ago, and I'm not the same person at all anymore.