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Old 10-24-2011, 10:17 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Default Re: Tip for the recently betrayed- see your doctor

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major depression/crying bouts/breakdowns that come from little triggers
Definitely went through this

rapid weight loss/loss of appetite
yup

lack of sleep/insomnia/nightmares
no nightmares but the other two I'm still going through

possible bouts of nausea/diarrhea
I don't know if it's the IBS or the situation triggering the IBS or both

waves of anxiety/panic attacks
I have PTSD now because of all of this

possible suicidal thoughts (if this happens immediately get medical help)
luckily, no. Thankfully, no - for me anyway

lots of fantasizing of either violent events of your husband or OW or both or revenge tactics
OMG I thought I was the only one

lack of ability to concentrate or focus (be very careful while driving, I almost got into a big accident the day after dday)
forgetting appointments or events
These two I still am going through, I have can't remember sh!t syndrome and would hazard a "unmotivated" to concentrate at this point

physical shaking is possible as well
those have passed

immune system getting suppressed and picking up nasty cold or flu
this is the hardest part, I already have a suppressed and cruddy immune system...sigh...it's worse now
This thread should be a sticky.
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