| | Re: Partner is a slob and never cleans
He will never learn to do on his own as long as you are doing for him. His mother didn't do him any favors by doing all of that his whole life.
Best thing to do is, clean your part. If the mess he makes is his own then he needs to learn to clean it. That may or may not ever happen. You will eventually have to decide what you are willing to live with and not.