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Originally Posted by mollyL
Didn't you say that your wife is now ready to go to counseling and that she realizes now that she was withholding sex from you? It sounds to me like your wife has a problem with expressing emotion and that what you take as disinterest may be instead be her total inability to express herself. I don't understand that right after that important bit of information, you said "I am at a loss?" Quick, find a therapist and go TOGETHER so you can learn how to express yourself to each other!!
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I am willing to go to counseling, I'm just at a loss because all this time I have been suggesting it and trying to work these issues out, but she was never willing. I guess it took me asking for a divorce for her to finally get rattled enough to accept my suggestions. I am just not sure that at this point I have enough desire left to actually work things out (Its also the fact that I don't really believe that she is capable of changing)