| | Re: Wondering if there are any postive outcomes or is Divorce the only answer?
Jellybean i appreciate you honesty, and you have comminted to that fact many times. But you telling me over and over and insisting that i am in denial is just not an accurate. I am trying to find out other outcomes, how others coped, and now the whole bpd, is another issues to be addressed, i am undecided what to do.. But there is so many, just like every other person who has been through this, things to be addressed before i just walk away of so many years of marriage,, all but 18 months of them was happy....... I agree he needs to tell me the truth, but can he? To many questions, to many... Alot to be addressed..