| | Re: Wondering if there are any postive outcomes or is Divorce the only answer?
Reread my post above. Nowhere there does it say you're in denial. I did say so in ur other threads and I believe that to be true. It seems u believe u can do something to make him admit the affair or get help when it doesn't work that way. He has to want those things on his own. Nothing u say is going to get him to admit he's having an affair which is one of ur primary concerns...the thing that is frustrating u. U are now saying his BPD could be causing him to deny an affair which simply isn't true. He is intentionally denying having an affair. Its very calculated on his part. So u caan continue to wait for him to admit it just know he won't until he chooses to of his own volition. If u keep doing and expecting the same thing...u can expect the same results.
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Last edited by Jellybeans; 10-26-2011 at 11:41 PM.