Amplexor

Sorry, I just can’t let this last post go by. Porn does hurt marriages and relationships. It ruins the young lives that are chewed up and spit out when they have outlived their usefulness in the business. It sets unobtainable standards for young minds trying to find out about sex. It cheapens the act like a side show at a road side carnival. That dirty little smut shop that used to be across the tracks is now virtually in every home in America. It has taken a beautiful gift of love and sharing that was given to us by our creator and turned it into a cheap thrill packaged and marketed for anyone with a credit card. Not only that but some of the stuff out there is just plain sick. Don’t tell me it is an innocent release because it is not. Imagine your wife’s feelings after she finds out you’ve been using it. How does she feel the next time you have sex with her? Don’t you think she might wonder if you’ve brought it to your own bed? Who or what act you might be thinking of? How does that affect her self esteem? Her sense of feeling loved while making love. Yes it is a temptation that most men need to deal with but that doesn’t mean it is the right thing to do. I’ve been there myself and am ashamed I ever did. The right things to do are usually the hard things. Temptation is here for a reason. Porn can destroy a marriage. Make partners feel unloved, unwanted and undesired. If men want to hide behind it because they aren’t “getting enough” then they need to grow up and look the problems of why their wives aren’t filling that need. Understand her, love her, complement her, show her you care, that you are there for her, that you respect her and most of all that you desire her. Do those things and sex will become more frequent and special at the same time. There, I’ve had my rant. I feel better.