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jnj express · 10-28-2011, 01:26 PM

Hey Jeres----you need to go to the closest county courthouse to where you live----get a blank Divorce packet---it will cost you about $20---get custody paperwork, if that is involved

Take plenty of time, fill out the paperwork---get help filling out the packet---then take it back to that courthouse and file it----make 4 copies---one for the court---one to serve her with---and 2 for you to keep

It's easy enuff to do---its just mentally hard to do it---but you will save thousands of dollars in atty's fees, and it is very easy actually---thousands of couples do divorce by themselves w/out atty's---so just take your time on the paperwork

In calif. all courthouses are closed on friday's --so you need to go mon. thru thus.

10-28-2011, 01:26 PM	#58 (permalink)
jnj express Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Southern california Posts: 1,722	Re: Blind-sided and having a very hard time coping!! Hey Jeres----you need to go to the closest county courthouse to where you live----get a blank Divorce packet---it will cost you about $20---get custody paperwork, if that is involved Take plenty of time, fill out the paperwork---get help filling out the packet---then take it back to that courthouse and file it----make 4 copies---one for the court---one to serve her with---and 2 for you to keep It's easy enuff to do---its just mentally hard to do it---but you will save thousands of dollars in atty's fees, and it is very easy actually---thousands of couples do divorce by themselves w/out atty's---so just take your time on the paperwork In calif. all courthouses are closed on friday's --so you need to go mon. thru thus.