| | Re: Blind-sided and having a very hard time coping!!
Hey Jeres----you need to go to the closest county courthouse to where you live----get a blank Divorce packet---it will cost you about $20---get custody paperwork, if that is involved
Take plenty of time, fill out the paperwork---get help filling out the packet---then take it back to that courthouse and file it----make 4 copies---one for the court---one to serve her with---and 2 for you to keep
It's easy enuff to do---its just mentally hard to do it---but you will save thousands of dollars in atty's fees, and it is very easy actually---thousands of couples do divorce by themselves w/out atty's---so just take your time on the paperwork
In calif. all courthouses are closed on friday's --so you need to go mon. thru thus.