Originally Posted by gigo

Thank you for your thoughts. It is really difficult to deal with no sex. And of course the put downs. It has affected me terribly, in so many ways. And yes I do feel intimidated by my own husband. We have a child and of course I would not want to end this marriage but work on it as much as I can to get it on the right track! but reality is that if he doesn't go to therapy he will never be able to hear my feelings..... so sad....