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maplechic · 03-23-2009, 10:59 AM

One thing to remember though is if you have a husband who loves online games- you might be in the mood OK great but he might have a devil of a hard time prying himself off his computer- so when he finally does- think OH Yeah... you the wife is no longer interested or may be fast asleep! My husband only just recently quit playing WOW after months of it being the most interestingly thing on earth to him.. but now he has unhooked himself from that and it has made alot of tension go away, not just for sex but for doing anything. But looking at the past two responses- may I remind you that no where in tradtional wedding vows- certainly not mine did he or I promise to give each other sex whenever it was wanted- to love yes I did promise that and yes we do have sex too but to me it has to be what you both want, you can be nice and give your partner what they desire yes but you are not under any law required to always do so, you shouldn't refuse always of course but you can if you dont wish to on occasion, dont feel good, are extremely worn out etc. Husbands and wives are partners and companions and we don't own each other, we are not property, we have our own minds and feelings and cant be treated as possessions-to do as you wish with, when you wish ( either way I mean we both cant treat each other like this). I am not treated that way but some couples do that.

03-23-2009, 10:59 AM	#14 (permalink)
maplechic Registered User Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 13	Re: Husband thinks I am not affectionate enough One thing to remember though is if you have a husband who loves online games- you might be in the mood OK great but he might have a devil of a hard time prying himself off his computer- so when he finally does- think OH Yeah... you the wife is no longer interested or may be fast asleep! My husband only just recently quit playing WOW after months of it being the most interestingly thing on earth to him.. but now he has unhooked himself from that and it has made alot of tension go away, not just for sex but for doing anything. But looking at the past two responses- may I remind you that no where in tradtional wedding vows- certainly not mine did he or I promise to give each other sex whenever it was wanted- to love yes I did promise that and yes we do have sex too but to me it has to be what you both want, you can be nice and give your partner what they desire yes but you are not under any law required to always do so, you shouldn't refuse always of course but you can if you dont wish to on occasion, dont feel good, are extremely worn out etc. Husbands and wives are partners and companions and we don't own each other, we are not property, we have our own minds and feelings and cant be treated as possessions-to do as you wish with, when you wish ( either way I mean we both cant treat each other like this). I am not treated that way but some couples do that. Last edited by maplechic; 03-23-2009 at 11:45 AM.