Originally Posted by sweetchild8908
I have been with my husband for 3 years, but just recently tied the knot (Sept 2)and now he wants out without even trying. Should I even try to bringing up reconciliation? I drove from Tennessee where I am stationed (I'm in the Marines) to come talk to him and he is not budging, he is convinced that it will not work without even giving it a chance. I'm falling apart. We have one child together and I refuse to put her through this. I don't want to pressure him into anything but I would like to bring it up as an option.
I made a promise that I want to keep. Marriage is an extremely meaningful step in life that I refuse to take lightly. I am stuck.... A little advice please.
I feel exactly the same way about my marriage. My H told me about a month ago that he wants out of the marriage. It turns out he has some deep rooted mental issues going on. At this point, I don't know where we stand. Trying to save my marriage has become everything right now because marriage is very important to me. It is something that I also take very seriously. All I can tell you is that the road you are on is long and dark. There are new twists and turns everyday. Stay strong in whatever decision you make and use this site to help you through it. Good luck!