Originally Posted by golfergirl
You can't hold on to someone who doesn't want to be held on to. Have you ever been in a relationship where you wanted out and the other person is telling you they'll do whatever you want and splitting isn't an option? It doesn't make you feel loved or cherished, it makes you feel suffocated and desperate to get out at all costs. The only chance one has is to go dark and move on. Be someone they are scared to leave on their own because you are so vibrant, busy and dynamic that they worry someone else will see that in you and snap you up. If you are a sniveling, quivering, begging mess, they aren't worried about losing you, because frankly, you are unattractive. They need to worry that others find you attractive and that they could lose you.
It's a sucky place to be and unfortunately you have to detach before they see your worth.
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Thats the manning up! I tried that and continue to do it but sometimes I fell but I am trying to stand up again, But the feeling of manning up its so good , sometimes im wondering I might get used to it and dont look up on what are my real intention of doing so....