countrywoman

Me and my husband have been together for almost 6 years and we would have been married 3 years this June. There has been some problems with our relationship though it all, but I didn't think it would end like this. I know it wasn't all his fault I made some bad mistakes too.

I guess our story started on our wedding night when he sat out in the garage with his son and another young man and got drunk while I waited for him to come in. then he came and past out. It was a week before we ever had sex. And it got worse. The past year I was lucky if we had sex once a month. When I would say something about it he would say is that all our marriage means to you. He sometimes says he just getting older and not interested or don't feel like it.

Let me explain I'm 41 and he is 46. But we are both pretty active in our lives. He hunts and traps and can walk for miles through the woods, and he can out work most men half his age. so I don't understand how he could do all this and not feel like making love to me.

We have another problem he dosn't talk to me. I can come and try to talk to him and he ignores me. He would get on the computer or be watching TV and I would try to talk to him and he would tell me he was busy. But let one of his friends call or come over and he would be up talking to them. He never put me first. And he never tried to save our marriage. So I would get mad and fuss and grip at him because that was the only way he would ever hear me. I just know how to handle it. I knew he was slipping away from me but I didn't know how to get him back.

I got mad on Valentines day because he didn't buy me anything and I bought him a $200.00 camera and a card and he wouldn't even open the card so I tore it to pieces. He told me he was tired of hearing about what I wanted and he wanted a divorce. He called all his friends and they started loading up all his stuff and they're not done yet.

So now here I sat no job no money 2 kids and no husband.

Thank you for reading please give me some advise