Re: For high drive women married to low drive men...
I don't think it's the games that make people motivated or interested -- some people just have higher libidos than others. Unfortunately you married a lower libido person.
I'm the high drive hubby and I'd say that's true.
I took wifey's virginity on our second date. She'd been in long relationships and done very little before that. She says that when she met me, she knew and didn't want to wait.
That history does squat to kill my drive, I WANT HER (and often).