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Old 07-27-2007, 12:03 PM   #2 (permalink)
katharina
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Originally Posted by wjmay View Post
My wife and I have been married for 3 years and dated for a year prior to that. We are separated and I know that she considers me an ex. She does not admit it to me, but to friends she calls me an ex. I need to move on but do not want to be lonely. I am not sure if I need to start dating, but if I do, how do I go about doing this again. How do I change a conversation from "water spots on a car" to "can I have your number"?
I think you probably need to give yourself some time... especially since you're still in the separated category and not even divorced. I have a feeling that if the time would be right for you, you probably wouldn't need to ask the question about how to change those conversations and it would happen naturally, yes?
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