| | Re: 11months marriage and still no sex,I'm scared.
I completely agree with you guys. I read somewhere that sex is the seal in marriage. I know he needs help and I'm willing to get it for him if he'll let me. Thing is, he hates discussing our issues with anyone,including me. That's why whenever we go for counselling he comes back home sulk for days.
Right now I'm tempted to ignore him and move on with my life. Saw my ex about 2 months ago and he looked good. We talked briefly and when he was about leaving I could have sworn I saw tears in his eyes. I felt sad throughout that week because I left a sexual man and someone that deeply cared for me and ended up with another sexual man(only that this one likes it with himself).
Recently in my workplace, if I get as much as a handshake or a lingering look from a guy, I get turned on. It's so embarrasing and I just hope they don't notice. It takes me time to cool down and get back to work and it's all because I aint getting none at home. In hubby's defence I have to say he's been putting in some efforts at home,helping to clean up, providing financially,taking me out on informal dates etc but no sex. I've gone oral on him and I think he loves it,but he's never made an attempt to go down on me. He plays a lot of games on the computer too,LOTS.
Contemplating telling my parents before proceeding with the divorce, what do you think?
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