Originally Posted by Lon
Is your nanny cam up and running yet? This situation as you are writing it DOES NOT sounds good, even the fact you are talking about this here means your marriage is definitely not on solid ground. If you find the evidence you need a clear plan and that includes informing her when she betrayed her vow and decided to end the marriage by adultery that she has also lost everything that you provide for her, and she has made the biggest mistake of her life (and of course you will tell her this as you are putting the boxes and suitcases full of her stuff on the front yard).
Like uphill said, I'd find a reason to take off work, if it wasn't to go home and take your W it would have been to go home and take her out of your life.
Lon you talk a good talk, but can you walk the walk? it's easy to say get her out your life, pack her suitcase, when it's someone else's life.
Let me get this one out of the way, I'm not an idiot, I have an IQ of 132, I'm not a cuckold H either, but like I said in the first post if she is cheating I won't just end the marriage, I will still try and work things out, because I know that if she has then I probably, somehow, drove her to it. I admit, I'm not the easiest guy to live with at times and regardless of whether she is cheating or not I just want to find out what caused the distance between us, because anything else would just have been a result of that distance.
Obviously the more I know (like the affair) the easier it is to confront her and find out exactly why we have grown apart.
Your comment is appreciated though.