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Old 02-17-2008, 05:22 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Default Re: my husbands porn addiction

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Originally Posted by sarahdale24 View Post
I think porn is stupid...sorry that's my honest opinion. However I also think that those who "star" in Porn have no self respect. Its sad that they make ALOT of money doing something so degrating to themselves. Talk about low self-esteem
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Lucky we are to live in a free enough time when you can do or live as you want. Different people see porn in different ways. I think it is important for people to express to their partners their feelings before one or the other feels like something has been taken away, trust has been broken, or some ends up hurt.

It is irony that we are living in the age of porn. A few years (50) ago women had little say in a marriage. 100 years ago cheating was at a higher rate then today. 200 years ago many places had cat houses.

Now to me I have a simple rule of thumb if I can't willingly do something in front of my wife then it simply has to be wrong therefore I do not do it. But beyond that communication is the most important thing you can have in any relationship at any stage, and you can start building it at any time.

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