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forthg · 11-03-2011, 07:44 PM

Thank you for your thoughtful comments, you are exactly right............I feel like it is my responsibility to be there for her and set aside any of my own feelings or wants, as they have all become null and void. I just need to know what my responsibility is, I mean it seems like we have been married already - 6 years. But its all without the rings, so does that give me the right to just leave. What if we were married with the rings, would my responsibility be different. That is where I am confused. I am not a quitter, but I do understand that the only way she is going to get better is if she helps herself. That leaves me with no communication from her, have no idea whats going on and I just try to keep myself busy until she decides to let me know what she is doing. All I keep hearing is that the best thing I can do for her is pray.....

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forthg Registered User Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 2	Re: I am Need of Desperate Help and Understanding on What to DO Thank you for your thoughtful comments, you are exactly right............I feel like it is my responsibility to be there for her and set aside any of my own feelings or wants, as they have all become null and void. I just need to know what my responsibility is, I mean it seems like we have been married already - 6 years. But its all without the rings, so does that give me the right to just leave. What if we were married with the rings, would my responsibility be different. That is where I am confused. I am not a quitter, but I do understand that the only way she is going to get better is if she helps herself. That leaves me with no communication from her, have no idea whats going on and I just try to keep myself busy until she decides to let me know what she is doing. All I keep hearing is that the best thing I can do for her is pray.....