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Old 11-03-2011, 08:15 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Discovered old emails my wife sent to her ex

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Originally Posted by Arnold View Post
Completely appropriate to confront/inquire about lying. She has no standing to object to the snooping, although she almost certanly will.
Her reaction will be very telling. Hostlity,defensiveness= affair. Concern and remorse =bad judgement.
Privacy such as this has no place in a marriage, IMHO. She will get away with what you ALLOW her to get away with.
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