Re: Discovered old emails my wife sent to her ex
Completely appropriate to confront/inquire about lying. She has no standing to object to the snooping, although she almost certanly will.
Her reaction will be very telling. Hostlity,defensiveness= affair. Concern and remorse =bad judgement.
Privacy such as this has no place in a marriage, IMHO. She will get away with what you ALLOW her to get away with.
"I've listened to preachers, I've listened to fools, I've watched all the dropouts, who make their own rules..."